how to set a meeting at a different time zone

I have read several letters of users. all try to "trick" the time zones or the meeting times.

This is something to be taken care by Apple.

I live in Israel. When I set a meeting in NYC, I do not want to think on time zones.

I set the meeting to 09:00 and expect to get buzzed at 09:00, in NYC. No matter the time zone I am in.

I want the time zone be updated automatically, as I use the clock of the iPhone for checking the time. I leave my hand watch with the Israeli time zone.

The change of the time in the iPhone, should NOT effect the calander.

I expect that the time zone will be changed automatically and the iPhone to show me the local time, e.g. NYC.

I expect my schedule to remain 09:00. It has nothing to do with the time zones.

Same on the way back to Israel.

I expect Apple to take care about this issue.

Thanks in advance.