Yesterday I posted saying that I had applied the supplemental update and it had not solved the wake problem.
I'm revising that statement. Looks like my problem may be fixed. Following the update yesterday I found that bluetooth was not working. When I attempted to turn it on I got a message that the bluetooth module was not present and to check my hardware. Never seen that message before and wasn't sure what it meant.
I tried a shutdown and restart without solving the problem. So I did a NVRAM reset--power down, hold the command, option, p, and r keys during power up until the machine boots the second time. That fixed the bluetooth issue.
Next I turned the wake-for-network-activity option back on and let the laptop sleep. My MacBook Pro slept normally from noon yesterday until this morning. It woke normally this morning with just a click on the mouse pad. Checking the system log I saw a number of RTS alarm wakes overnight--those were the kiss of death for me before--with normally sleep operations following them.
Looks like my problem is sloved. Don't know if others will have the same success, but I hope so.
As bratman91 I didn't see the update show up in the app store. Found it by doing a google search for 10.8.2 supplemental. You can download the update from Apple support page http://support.apple.com/kb/DL1600.