Today was enlightening. Not only did I have my AT&T Galaxy S III with me, but I also had a family member with their VZW Galaxy Nexus (Jelly Bean), so I got to see a non iPhone 5 LTE device next to my iPhone 5, both on VZW. Based on this experience in the cities/towns of Somerville and Everett, MA, I am going to say that I now blame VZW for 90-95% of my problems and Apple for 5-10%. Previously I was blaming VZW for 75% and Apple for 25%.
I now strongly believe either VZW has just miserable LTE coverage throughout MA & NYC (which seems hard to believe given how long they have been building out their network) or that their cell towers have some strange SW bug which causes performance and signal strength to drop off a cliff when a LTE phone is not close to the tower, affecting upload speeds even more than download speeds when this happens.
Detailed results below.
Spot 1 was the strong tower spot, I have always had good strong signal performance on my iPhone 5 (mentioned above) - Union Square Somerville, MA (OUTSIDE)
VZW iPhone 5 LTE held good signal and provided strong upload and download speeds - 18Mb/s download / 10Mb/s+ upload with -68 to -78 dBM RSRP. Acceptable throughput, although still schooled by AT&T which was double the download speed.
AT&T Galaxy S III has similiar signal strength with download speeds of 36Mb/s and upload speeds 10Mb/s+
I did not have a VZW Galaxy Nexus at this location.
Spot 2 was Broadway St. in Somerville, MA (OUTSIDE)
VZW iPhone 5 had decent download speeds (10Mb/s) but slow upload speeds (2MB/s). 3 bars -99dBm RSRP 370ms (high latency). When forced in to 3G mode, RSSI was -80dBM at this location on iPhone 5
AT&T Galaxy S III was 18.12Mb/s down and 12.31Mb/s up. 3 bars -87dBm
Now the interesting part of what I learned
VZW Galaxy Nexus Jelly Bean download speed was 3.3Mb/s and upload speed was 2.5Mb/s 70ms. Even worse than the iPhone 5. -105 dBm LTE:13
Spot 3 was Target in Everett, MA (Wellington) (OUTSIDE AND INSIDE TESTING)
VZW iPhone 5 was flapping between 3G and LTE. When on LTE, speed test 1 was 7.63Mb/s down and 1.51Mb/s up (SLOW) and then 11Mb/s down and 0.45Mb/s up. When on 3G (did it on its own), -80dBM 4 bars
AT&T Galaxy S III was 30Mb/s down/6.45Mb/s up 81ms, -95dBM 45 asu
VZW Galaxy Nexus JB was even slower than iPhone 5 at this location in both download and upload speeds and also flapping back and forth between 3G and LTE:13
JP-- Re: iPhone 5 testing at VZW stores, the stores didn't have iPhone 5's in stock when I did my testing, so I only tested GS III's on VZW at the VZW store against my iPhone 5s.