Dear Debora,
This long line strings of communication with all everyone, has given me hope to try and fix the issue. My phone was fine ( iphone 4 with iOS 6) until last week. I have noticed that while screen is locked everything stops and when unlocked all notifications come at one time ( watsapp , imessage, twitter , email etc).
I gave up trying everything, but when i see this string i get hope again.
The only thing I changed recently is some setting in the router.
I will try today to change it back to old settings and check.
No wonder i was suprised how my battery was perfoming well, until i found out that the wifi sleeps automatically.
First i thought maybe it was due to the distance of the router, but even when close to it , it was the same.
I was planning to restore the phone and upgrade to ios 6.1, but from the thread i saw that many have done it but yet the issue still remains.
Hope all of us find a solution soon.
This is really annoying. I have to refresh the phone every 5 minutes to check that i havent missed anything lol