No, Apple didn't change anything to get you to buy something. You sound like you have a hardware or software issue that is affecting the ability of the Disk Utility to mount images.
Note these tips for upgrading, and if you are unable to upgrade using these tips, I suspect a hardware or software issue somewhere:
http://www.macmaps.com/upgradefaq.html
Caches are the first suspect. You might want to try creating a second administrator account and install from that.
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