Please stop shouting at us, this is a user-to-user technical support site and shouting at us and issuing conspiratorial rants won't accomplish anything.
What type of computer did you connect to and what type of Operating System?
Laptop or Desktop?
Which USB port did you connect to?
What other USB devices are connected to this computer?
Which Nano do you have?
Have you connected to this computer before?
What version of iTunes are you using?