If my husband and I both have iphone 5's with seperate icloud accounts can we track each other using find my iphone?
No. Find my iPhone lists all devices on the same account. If you want to track each other, download Find my Friends.
Sure, all you need is Find My iPhone app. When using it, just sign in using your husband's ID, not yours. You'll be able to track his device. I do that with my wife when she's on a long trip.
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