You've tried upgrading. Multiple times. You've tried an upgrade to 10.6.4. That failed. You've tried the combo update. That failed. You've restarted the processing by reinstalling 10.6.3, and that's worked. You want to upgrade to 10.6.8. You've repeated this sequence. You've made this part of the problem quite clear.
Unfortunately, there are many potential triggers.
If you have not already repeated the download, re-download the 10.6.8 Combo upgrade kit from Apple.
I'll presume you have sufficient free storage space on the device to allow the upgrade. If not, then offload some of your larger files to external storage, or delete any user-loaded files that you no longer require.
Before commencing the next "upgradation" upgrade sequence, disconnect all external devices. Disconnect all USB devices. This includes any external keyboard, external mouse, and external storage devices. Use only the Apple-integrated hardware for your particular model of MacBook Pro.
Now for the most important part of troubleshooting this: what is the exact wording, and the specific messages, and the actual output that is produced when the upgrade fails. The specific wording of these unspecified diagnostics, and the last dozen or two commands and related output of the last section of the verbose output prior to whatever happens - matters.
If you're not in a position to provide the specific wording or diagnostics or related - and consider photographing the error dialog boxes rather than copying those down, for instance - then you're going to want to visit with the local Apple store or contact Apple or your local Apple reseller directly.