Hi, so I used the terminal to show all files and it turns out that all the software updates were being downloaded and not installed. So, 112 GB of downloaded updates in the hidden folder, 'Private' and then burried 6 or 7 levels below. Actual size of info to run OSX Server was under 7GB. What a pain.
Thanks for your advice Niel. I did'nt see this before I solved it but I really appreciate you replying to my post! Thanks!