Clearly for you guys getting overheat something is wrong.
My 2012 retina MBP 15 2.66 is COLD all the time even under heavy load. I mean it's barely warm. I even posted about how doing mostly the same kind of stuff (VMWare Fusion/Windows 7) on my older 2012 MBP would have the fans screaming due to processor activity, on this retina model it barely notices.
I've had three VM's (Win7 32, Win7 64, Win 8) all runnig at the same time. In the VMs I'm using compilers for .NET, Delphi, etc, meanwhile in MacOS I have mail, skype, web browser, Coda (for web page development) and I'm switcing between all of this and the retina MBP just sort of lopes along barely getting warm.
So clearly in my opinion something is not right.
When you first startup yoru new MBP there is a process that indexes the drive and that can heat things up a bit but as the first responder stated it should calm down and go away. There will be some heat heat that exits from the vent in front of the display but it should not cause the unit to get too warm.
Without a doubt there are some processes that will warm up any machine. Last night I was doing a disk clone backup and that got it warm. But for mine in normal use it barely breathes.