Exactly the point of basically this entire conversation. More than anything else, all of us who threw a lot of cash at Apple for a "pro" piece of equipment--we didn't "settle" when we bought, why should we settle now?
Apple more than pitched this "instant-on" feature--not only with the MBPr, but with the Air as well. This is a selling point--other than the high-res screen.
These machines run on RAM. They are fast. There's no excuse for this "instant-wait" issue.
I owned a 17-inch mid-2010 MBP with a hard drive--and it truly was "instant-on." I miss that machine greatly and at one point seriously considered returning this MBPr to get TWO of those 17-inch models for what I spent on the MBPR.
Never again will I jump in first for a new model. Just like the iPhone 4S and potentially the 5S, and my second iteration 17-inch MBP I owned, I will from now on wait until the mid-model.
I fear, more than anything else, that just like when Steve Jobs left Apple the first time, which was followed by mediocrity, now that Steve's vision no longer drives innovation, Apple will slide into mediocrity once again.
Oh, and the absolute added insult to injury? This MBPr "creaks." Yes, the so-called all-in-one unibody design actually creaks like an old 2007 when I pick it up from one side or another.