Q: Itunes doesn't recognize my iPhone 5

Do you have the latest version of iTunes(10.7)? What computer OS are you using, Windows or Mac?

chrisj ,would please do fever me to make a i tunes free id and password for me , i will be very grateful  to you ,please.

You need to look at these two support documents. One is about creating an iTunes account, and the other is about creating an account without a credit card.

http://support.apple.com/kb/HT2731

http://support.apple.com/kb/ht2534

I do not work for Apple and could not create an account for you anyway. This is a user to user technical support forum.