Everything locks up, can't reformat
It happened around the last time the last release of iTunes 10 came out; anytime I try to do something on my Mac Pro running the latest version of 10.7 most everything will freeze up. Specifically, anytime a dialog/popup/sheet comes up, that program will freeze and require a force quit. When using the Finder, unless it's in list view the same problem will happen and require a Finder relaunch. The top menubar area is mostly useless as well, with empty/freezing menu lists and a frozen clock in the top right.
Because of this I'm unable to use Disk Utility or anything else. I have everything important already backed up (this is a secondary machine) and I've tried just reinstalling Lion. Unfortunately (except for holding option to choose startup disks) I can't get into recovery, safe, or any other startup mode. PRAM has also been reset but didn't seem to do anything. I have a few spare disks that I've tried reinstalling Lion to but it hasn't done anything.
I would really appreciate any help in restoring my Mac. I'll provide any other info as needed. Thanks.