Q: Is there any way to modify Bonjour to work with other LSP?

I'm having the problem pointed here http://support.apple.com/kb/TS4123 and the cause is a proxy software I use. It's a program I use every day and I cannot just disable it, is there any workaround to this? Any way to fix Bonjour instead? I really don't see why other companies must adapt their software to be compatible with iTunes and not the other way around.