Adding Phone to messages (all other solutions in different threads not working)
Hi all, As a pre-cursor, Ive researched this to death, tried all other solutions provided by different threads on and off of this forum, so hang in there while I explain.
I recently left to go overseas (military), Where I'm stationed, I have a lot of internet access, so I recently updated my OS to Mountain Lion in order to use Messages (have easier access to ethernet than wifi). For the past couple of weeks, my Messages account has been communicating with other iPhones back in the states using my phone number. Today I came back and Messages was asking me to re-sign back in with my apple ID. When I did, I was notified by some one I was talking to, that a new conversation had been started on their phone using my email. I went into preferences, for Messages and my phone number was not there. I tried adding it, but all I got was "an email has been sent to the device, follow instructions to complete verification," with no email actually being sent.
I found a wifi spot, went on my phone (iPhone 5), went to Settings -> Messages, 1 of 2 things were wrong. My iMessage was now waiting for activation (it was already activated) and my phone number under "Send & Receive", was now greyed out.
I did the whole sign out and sign in thing, it didn't work. Then I backed up my phone and completely reset it. Once everything was re-stored, I got the message on both my phone and through Messages that my phone number was now receiving messages through iMessage. In Messages preferences, my number was selected as primary, and was how all new conversations were going to through my phone number. Great news, it's fixed right? Wrong. About an hour later, I went back, my phone number was not there and my iMessages were being sent using email. Back to the same issues.
I followed this thread's advice https://discussions.apple.com/thread/4386276?start=0&tstart=0 with no luck.
Please help, any other advice would be great.
MacBook Pro, OS X Mountain Lion (10.8.2), iPhone 5 iOS 6.0.1