hi csound. thanks.
there is a real problem with the implementation of Mail vis a vis Contacts. it is really problematic. for instance, only on Mountain Lion can i sort my contacts by "Not In a Group" using a smart folder. i cannot do this on my mac pro which can only go up to Lion. this means that any time i want to find a contact that i have added while on my phone (you cannot add a Group to a contact added on your phone) i have to go into my laptop once in awhile and manually sort these.
also, even the method that you point out (thank you BTW) means that i still end up with a contact sort of dumped into contacts which i then have to sort.
but for my needs i can't determine in advance whether an incoming mail from someone was already or not already added to my contact database. i mean, i COULD do this if they would add a little doohicky to the incoming email address but i don't have a computer in my head that will let me know this. this is why i have to rely on Previous Recipients. one other problem with previous recipients is also that once you do ADD the contact to Contacts, if you decide to delete the contact from Contacts then Previous Recipients has no way of knowing this and it still shows it as added.
i mean, this whole thing is a total mess. i can't even add the contact without Contacts or Mail mixing up which is the first name and which is the last name (or the settings are so confusing i can't figure it out).
but this is not the point. the point is that I AM using iCloud to sync my contacts and i have one database for this set of contacts. the problem is that Previous Recipients cannot sync but also that ADDING THE CONTACTS from Previous Recipients to the Contacts app is so poorly implemented and poorly thought out that even after hacking my way through this (i am just about to sit down tonight to sort hundreds of these into a GROUP so that they don't just fall willy-nilly into only the All My Contacts section) - that - well that i need some help from someone that has worked with this functionality in the real world to figure out how i am going to MAINTAIN this database interaction.
right now this /appears/ to involve adding new Previous Recipients that show up on both computers in the Previous Recipients database to Contacts - and then manually deleting one in the case of duplicates and manually fixing the name order (in most cases) - and then adding to a Group. this is a major pain and not worthy of any functional sync that i have ever run into.
all those are legitimate issues assuming that i can't simply remember that a contact coming in has not been added to my database or assuming that i am not going to look up each and every incoming email address and cross check it against my Contacts database.
i mean, this is ostensibly what the start of this functionality is for i would have to assume i am just hoping someone can give me workarounds now and that they are going to FIX THIS in the short term.
is there even a suggestions section for Contacts on the suggestion site? i could not even find this...