Hi all,
Unfortunately I have to face same problem and also tried using the technique with turning the phone off and on, by switching the airplane mode off and on. Nothing would work for me in a stable way. And if the wireless would get activated, it would constantly scan for connections without any success.
I read the official advice of apple as follows: http://support.apple.com/kb/TS1559. I followed every step as described and was so happy when my iphone got automatically connected to my home wireless connection! But that lasted for half an hour or so... Then it would constantly work and fail until I turned the phone off and on and the wifi went grey again...
Honestly, I don't think this being a hardware issue, since in that case it would never start working again just because you update the IOS device or restore it. So, it seems like being a software issue instead. And in that case I believe Apple should advise us a certain solution. Our phones have only a year warranty, that's true. But what about the customer protection law? A phone, especially purchased at "apple" prices, should not break after a year plus one month or so usage time. It is unacceptable to have have so many customers with the same problem! Especially when seeing the number of people who has followed this apple support community thread, i.e. 36539! When buying an apple product one has certain reasonable expectations and that's normal.
Thus, I really hope that Apple would come with another official solution (different from the one they have on their website) that would permanently fix our wifi problem. Apple should also participate in the APPLE support community discussions! The iphone usage is based on the Internet! And the non-functionality of wifi simply makes the iphone useless...
Thanks!
P.S.: Can anyone advise if I can retrieve my iphone content (photos, videos) if I have neither synchronized or activated the iclouds? Are these two only means to bring the memory back?