"On the new IOS 6 soft wear it says that my i pod 4g can have suri"
That is not tue at all. It says the opposite. it clearly states:
Siri is available on these devices:
- iPhone 4S or later
- iPad 3rd generation or later
- iPad mini
- iPod touch (5th generation)"
"Siri is available in Beta only on iPhone 4S, iPhone 5, iPad (3rd generation), and iPod touch (5th generation) "