I have an iPad that does not have icloud or software update software in my settings. How can I fix this?
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This option appears on iOS 5 or later. See > http://support.apple.com/kb/HT4972 To set up iCloud after updating, open Settings > iCloud
There is nothing to "fix".
Updating from the device itself is a feature of ios 5 and later. Since you do not currently have ios 5 or later, you will have to update as you always have.
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