Screen Sharing username missing
I share the screen of my iMac (home office) from two MacBooks, and it's gone well for years.
Recently, when trying to log in my Screen Sharing host (iMac, Snow Leopard) from clients (MacBooks, one Lion and one Mountain Lion), the username field is either greyed out or absent, and I can't log into Screen Sharing using either my host's username password (the usual way) nor my Screen Sharing password as specified in the Sharing pane of System Preferences (but which I have never needed before). Without the username field, it won't let me in.
Background: this is both i) from within my home network, and also ii) remotely via an SSH Tunnel (which I learned how to do on Apple Support Communities - see www.ctlow.ca/SSH-VPN_MacOSX.html.) Same problem either way. Recently I have been using RealVNC, either natively or through the SSH tunnel, only to get to VMWare Fusion's internal VNC feature (to circumvent Fusion-Windows 8's lack of "Windows-key" functionality). RealVNC also works to get to the general iMac's screen sharing, but I don't need it for that and don't use it - I just use "Connect to Server" (either on my home network or through the SSH Tunnel"), or click "Screen Sharing" sometimes if on the home network. Same problem no matter which.
In the process of finding the Fusion/Win8 workaround with VMWare Support, we installed not only RealVNC, but also LogMeIn and it's related service, join.me. They didn't help so I uninstalled them, but perhaps messed that up by deleting programs intead of using the LogMeIn uninstall feature, so reinstalled LogMeIn, uninstalled it properly, uninstalled it's web page version properly, and then deleted any remaining join.me files.
I mention that because, whether related or not, it seems to me that my old, standard, VNC/Screen-Sharing window disappears/malfunctions (described above) when I get rid of LogMeIn (whether properly or sloppily) and returns when I reinstall it - would have to do further testing to confirm.
So, i) does anyone know why my username field has vanished when I try to access Screen Sharing, and ii) does it have anything to do with uninstaling LogMeIn? (Or, could RealVNC have anything to do with this? It's working fine for Fusion's internal VNC server, which however has never required a username.)
Also, iii) I read about a few related problems where people have downloaded an older version of a file related to Remote Desktop, and fixed a similar problem, but Remote Desktop is a specific Apple software program (isn't it?) which I don't have or use. So, that wouldn't apply to me, would it?
Thanks to all.
Charles
N.B. Anybody can fix the easy ones!
iMac, Mac OS X (10.6.8)