I don't like the Apple ones either - they're too big, and the sound could be better. Best earbud style headphones I've ever had came with a Sandisk MP3 player... they're the kind with the rubber thing on them, so they're comfortable, and they have that noise cancelling feature, so you don't have to turn the volume too loud. I think they're similar to the in-ear earbuds that Apple sells, but I've never tried them.