verify my icloud account

You should receive an email from Apple with a "Verify Now" link. Check the inbox and spam/junk folder for the email address that you used to set up your iCloud account.

I don't get a email from apple

Make sure you are checking the email address you used to set up your iCloud account. Check the spam/junk folder as well as the inbox. If it isn't there, go to https://appleid.apple.com, click Manage your Apple ID, sign in, click on Name, ID and Email addresses on the left, then to the right click Resend under your Primary Email Address to resend the verification email.