i forgot my ipod password

Ryland@decker wrote:

... help????? without reseting or restoring ipod

Not possible...

If you cannot remember the passcode, you will need to Restore the device...

Connect to iTunes on the computer you usually Sync with and Restore...

http://support.apple.com/kb/HT1414

If necessary Place the Device into Recovery mode...

http://support.apple.com/kb/HT1808

Place the iOS device in Recovery Mode and then connect to your computer and restore via iTunes. The iPod will be erased.

iOS: Wrong passcode results in red disabled screen

If recovery mode does not work try DFU mode.

How to put iPod touch / iPhone into DFU mode « Karthik's scribblings

Is there a way just to be able to unlock my Ipod with my laptop?

You have to restore and thus erase the device.