My ipod touch has been disabled and I am unable to connect to itunes as it request as it is disabled

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Place the iOS device in Recovery Mode and then connect to your computer and restore via iTunes. The iPod will be erased.

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If recovery mode does not work try DFU mode.

How to put iPod touch / iPhone into DFU mode « Karthik's scribblings