Got a new laptop and would like to sync my iPad & iPhone libaries. iTunes is trying to make me wipe all files from the devices & start over. Any way to go the other way?
Do you still have your old computer so that you can copy your iTunes library over from it ? If you do then there are a nubmer of various methods that you could use to copy it over : http://support.apple.com/kb/HT4527
You may also find this article on syncing to a new computer useful : https://discussions.apple.com/docs/DOC-3141
And there is also this article on recovering content from a device : https://discussions.apple.com/docs/DOC-3991