Hi Jenny - If you have not already figured this out - getting movies to play out of webpages has long been a detail-tricky, problematic challenge - expecially when you want your page to play in EVERY webbrowser on EVERY platform. But, just looking at your code, I believe the path to the file itself is suspect. I'm not sure why there is a question mark infront of the filename. You might want to get familiar with relative folder addressing. If there is a folder (named 'audio_files') with the audio file at the same level as the HTML file from which you are executing, you could refer to it as "./audio_files/13Jan2012.mp3". Remember that alphabetic CASE COUNTS in many such circumstances and that not all characters are 'allowed' - or they may be interpreted in different ways than on your desktop - in web URLs.
Below is an example of what I normally do with video files (although audio would work the same) in my webpages:
<OBJECT classid='clsid:02BF25D5-8C17-4B23-BC80-D3488ABDDC6B'
width="480"
height="336"
codebase='http://www.apple.com/qtactivex/qtplugin.cab'>
<param name='src' value="mywebvideo.m4v">
<param name='autoplay' value="true">
<param name='height' value="336">
<param name='width' value="480">
<param name='bgcolor' value="000000">
<param name='controller' value="true">
<param name='loop' value="false">
<EMBED src="mywebvideo.m4v"
width="480"
height="336"
autoplay="true"
controller="true"
loop="false"
bgcolor="#000000"
pluginspage='http://www.apple.com/quicktime/download/'>
</EMBED>
</OBJECT>