What to do if you forget your password and have no idea what it is!?

If you cannot remember the passcode, you will need to restore your device using the computer with which you last synced it. This allows you to reset your passcode and resync the data from the device (or restore from a backup).

If you restore on a different computer that was never synced with the device, you will be able to unlock the device for use and remove the passcode, but your data will not be present.

You may have to force iPad into Recovery Mode

http://support.apple.com/kb/ht1808

I am afraid currently there's no way to bypass the password and save your "stuff".

You can re-download your apps and music.

App Store>Purchased

iTune>Purchased