MY IPHONE IS DISABLED AND SAYS CONNECT TO ITUNES BUT DOESNT RECOGNIZE MY PHONE HELP ME PLEASE

MY IPHONE 4S IS DISABLED, TELLS ME TO CONNECT TO ITUNES, BUT ITUNES DOESNT ACKNOWLEDGE MY PHONE. DOES ANYONE KNOW HOW I CAN GET MY IPHONE UN-DISABLED? IVE BEEN WITHOUT IT FOR 2-DAYS AND CANT CALL OUT AND CANT GET TO A STORE ANYWHERE, ONLINE APPLE SERVICES HAS PROVEN "DISABLED THEMSELVES" I OWN ALL APPLE PRODUCTS AND THIS IS ENOUGH TO PUT ME BACK TO PC ITEMS. PLEASE HELP IF YOU CAN. THEY TELL ME ON MY PHONE TO CONNECT TO ITUNES BUT CANT FIND ANYTHING IN ITUNES RELATING TO MY PROBLEM. THANKS