there is a window that says this ipad cannot back up to cloud without a verified email addres wich dont let me get in. what should i do to take that window off?
Sounds like you have not verified the email address you put in for your iCloud account. You can check it at http://appleid.apple.com/
Or you can turn off iCloud backup in Settings > iCloud > Storage & Backup > iCloud Backup.
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