Is there a flash player that helps you watch online videos??

You can try one of the app/service combinations for playing Flash such as VirtualChrome (the only one that says it also supports Java), Skyfire, Puffin, or iSwifter. One of those might work for you, though they all have limitations and do not work with all sites and services

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