I try everything I know to get connect the Apple TV and my my iTunes, do I miss something?, is some kind of firmware update, or anything else?
go to settings in the appletv
remove the binding to the computer
when it's don removing the binding go backup and
setup the binding again this should let it show up in itunes
and you can type in the numbers it show on the appletv
then it will start the sync from scratch
it fixed it for the rest of us
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