I have reached the point where it does not occur when I am another user, but it does occur when I create a new library, and the support article does not cover this....?
I now need further support to understand how to cledan out i`Tunes completely for me as a user so I can use it like {fake me} the alternate user I created to test iTunes screw-up
MacBook Pro (15-inch Late 2008), OS X Mountain Lion (10.8.2)