shared calendars won't sync between subscribers
I have (2) shared calendars in iCal with my wife for our iPhones (4s w/latest updates). I "hosted" them both, one for my work schedule, and one for appointments for our kid. The work iCal works great, she recieves any changes or modifcations I make. However, for the kids iCal, she will recieve any adds/edits that I make, BUT anytime she adds/edits an appointment, the changes never sync to my iphone. I even have the kids iCal set so she can add/edit the appointments, and not just "view only". Any ideas? Does this have something to do with me being the host, even though it's not a "view only" setting for her?
That brings me to my next question. My work iCal is set to "view only" for her, however, it continues to change back to "add/edit" for her, as if it's resettting to a default settting. Any ideas for that??? I can't have her accidently delete a work appointment - needs fix asap.
Any help, thanks.
iMac (24-inch Early 2009), Mac OS X (10.7.4)