Thanks,
I think I figured out that iCloud must have 2 calendars associated with it that is called "home" and "work". You just have to know that I suppose. Also, my real "home" account is a Pop5 and its calendar cannot be synced. Unlike with my iPhone, neither can my school gmail account.
What i was saying is Using the term iCloud ID is completely different that saying Apple ID although you have to figure this out on your own because Apple uses them as interchangeable when setting your iCloud up. In other words, you can share an Apple ID amongst devices but back up each on a different iCloud. It would be nice if Apple would use these terms consistently. At one point my wife and I merged contacts and then she deleted all of mine thinking she was deleting them off her phone but really she was deleting them off our shared "cloud". I had to get my old phone and manually re type each one in. Also, I had to experiment that I could create another iCloud account and keep the same Apple ID for the store purposes. This is just one example of where Apple just leaves you to try it and hope it works.
Don't get me wrong, I love my iPad(I am on my second one) and iPhone. I just wish file manipulation and maintenance was not so clunky--going through iTunes instead of dragging all my files into a folder. Backing up multiple devices on one computer is an adventure. Also, trying to have multiple computers, multiple devices, and multiple users in the same household and keeping that all straight, woo! But I digress. I got the calendar thing figured out.
I appreciate your help.