Well I had spent about 8 hours rebuilding my library and my playlists. I was still missing music but at this point, I didn't care. I even updated my iPhone iOS right after that and thought the whole iTunes kerfuffle would mess up the phone but it didn't, phew. I saved a copy of the new .xml file in another folder on my hard drive and exported each playlist to a different folder on my hard drive.
Since then I turned my computer off and on and iTunes kept my music and playlists. I closed and reopened iTunes several times and my music and playlists were still there.
Today I get my daughter's new iPod in the mail (we had to get a new one since she broke it). I always sync it from my iTunes on my laptop and had backed it up before we had to send it away. Since they sent a new one, I did a restore from iTunes. Wanna guess what happened? Yep. All my music, apps, and playlists disappeared as soon as I did this. Oh, and the Restore from iTunes on her iPod also restored her pictures and contacts but none of her apps save ONE. I definitely had downloaded her iTunes purchases too.
So now I'm going to try and restore the library and playlists from those .xml file and exported playlists that I had saved somewhere else on my computer. Even if it works, I'm guessing that iTunes will think it's a "new" library therefore totally wiping out my iPhone and my daughter's iPod each time we connect them to iTunes.
I want to be positive but it's very hard. I'm hating whoever programmed that **** iTunes update right now. I used to feel like an idiot for not having updated iTunes in several months and not having updated my iOS in 2 years because I was afraid of problems like these and now look at what happened. I feel like a fool for actually HAVING updated stupid iTunes.
Oh, and I did look for the temp files and none of them were dated close to the date of my upgrade. Also, I did put in an exception for AVG to NOT scan the My Music folder and moreover, I didn't run any AVG scans at all (and stopped those that started automatically right away).
This really stinks.
Message was edited by: NCCGRO Changed .itl file to .xml file