connections failing on SMTP port
I'm seeing something odd on my OS X server system WRT email.
Everything was going along fine for a few months, and now I'm seeing *no* successful SMTP connections from outside my network.
The firewall hasn't changed, and I'm seeing the incoming connections. They just never get past the SYN ACK part of the connection setup.
remote ---> SYN --> server
remote <-- SYN ACK <-- server
And that's pretty much it.
If the firewall was blocking the connections I would expect not to even see the SYN.
Web, DNS etc work fine, so I know there's no routing problem exterior to my network.
I checked the client restrictions and inet interfaces entries in main.cf, but nothing done there appeared to affect the connection. Right now inet_interfaces is set to all, and the client restrictions is the standard set -- permit_mynetworks, permit_sasl_authenticated, reject_rbl_client zen.spamhaus.org permit
I tried setting client restrictions to just "permit" and it didn't help.
I did just upgrade the server. That might have been a mistake, but it's done now. Apple's had some pretty seriously screwed up server upgrade in the past...
Has anyone seen anything like what I'm describing?
Any ideas about where to go next on this?
Thanks for any help.
Kevin