Thanks for the help both of you. I think I figured it out, and no the developer does not offer much help, or reply to emails if you read the reviews.
- It appears that you download the app,
- sync the device,
- selct the device (in iTunes) then go under the Apps tab (apps that can transfer files will appear at the bottom)
- select the my media app
- then choose the files from your library or folder of your choice to add and let it copy them.
**I then went back on my device and deleted the videos from my videos section and was still able to view them once I opened the app**
**I also went back and deleted them from my library so they don't show up there either, I just kept the files in my media folder in case they don't sync up or there is some other problem next time.
-Hope this helps someone with the same question-
P.s. deggie they actually have both apps. I got ripped off by buying the 1st one at $1.99 then when I tried to use it there was a link that said get "full" version where it directed me back to the store to the version you suggested for another $2.99...********. I would have gone with Illaass's response but I had already bought it before I read the post.