You might wish to review the terms of use:
https://discussions.apple.com/static/apple/tutorial/tou.html
before you post in the future, just to avoid further such problems.
And if you post an opinion, be prepared to have other people disagree with your conclusions. Otherwise, as Meg said ask specific technical questions and we can probably provide useful suggestions. For instance, if you'd asked something like "my iPhone 5 seems to be easily damaged on the corners. Is that common and is there something I can do about that?" we'd have been able to provide advice that might do you and others here some good.
And I'm not a lady, by the way. If you think me arrogant because I refused to get into a debate with you, you're entitled to your opinion, though it was not my intent.
Regards.