I have tried double tapping the home key and swiping to the right but the icon is not there.
is your ipad connected to the airplay device either by bluetooth or wifi, I know the airplay button doesnt show on mine if I am not connected.
Trouble shooting AirPlay
Made me think,,, I turned off my iPad 2 and turned it back on and the icon now shows up... Thank you to those who replied!
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