my ipad is disabled

Connect to iTunes on the computer you usually Sync with and “ Restore “...

http://support.apple.com/kb/HT1414

If necessary Place the Device into Recovery mode...

http://support.apple.com/kb/ht4097

Note on Recovery Mode.

You may need to try this More than Once...

Be sure to Follow ALL the Steps...

iOS: Device disabled after entering wrong passcode

http://support.apple.com/kb/ht1212

Using iPhone/iPad Recovery Mode

http://ipod.about.com/od/iphonetroubleshooting/a/Iphone-Recovery-Mode.htm

 Cheers, Tom 😉