Possible fix for Messages having MMS problems after 6.1.x updates?
So, I updated both my phone and my laptop to the latest OS X and iOS this morning and I ended up losing the ability to send or receive MMS from Messages on the computer. If I tried to send a photo it would just cancel out immediately and say 'zero KB' of the message was sent and it would show up in my window but not the window of people who were participating in the chat. I couldn't receive images I sent from my phone, or images sent to me from others in the chat. The download window in Messages would just show a progress bar of a photo it was trying to download and it would make no progress. What I ended up doing was going into the Library folder in my user directory and deleting everyting in there having to do with iMessages. My cache, my history, my preferences, everything. If done right, when you start the program back up, it should default to it's original state and it should be asking you to log in or setup an account. When you punch in your information, you should get a perfectly blank chat window with no history in it. You know need to setup your account again so that it is in sync with your phone and iPad using the same number to send and receive on all devices. If done right, you should now be able to send and receive messages without issue. Hope this helps!
Make sure you not only get rid of ~/Library/Messages but also:
Which can be found in ~Library/Preferences
Messages-OTHER, iOS 6.1.3