Camera Roll and Voice Memos not automatically moving to iTunes or new computer

Hello!

Two weeks ago, my old computer (a 5-6 year old Windows Vista) broke and I spent a week saving everything that meant anything to me. We bought Windows 8 shortly after, and I began to set up my new itunes library, (much to my dismay - why is there no way of tranfering a library and all your playcounts?).

The problem is that everything will sync to my phone, but my camera roll photos and voice memos don't upload onto the computer like they did on my Windows Vista. There used to be an album called 'Voice Memos' on my itunes, which artist's name was the name of my phone, and a file in the 'My Music' folder where they would go to, and my pictures would create a file in 'My Pictures' which would name itself the date that they were copied from my iPhone to the Computer.

I have saved the settings on autoplay to 'ask me every time', but it still doesn't pop up. I understand that Vista and Windows 8 are extremely different but I need to somehow learn how to do this again on Windows 8. I have an iPhone 3GS, with the latest version of iTunes. The software on my phone has not been updated in a while, and I'm scared to do so now.

Please if anyone can help me it would be greatly appreciated, I have tried to understand some of the other similar questions in the apple support communities but I don't understand how to carry any of these out - nor do any of the problems fit my dilemna.