iTunes doesn't find Remote app devices
iTunes (11.0.2) is running in a Windows XP VM (host platform is Windows 7 x64).
The xp vm uses a shared nat connection to the host's network (which is wireless).
Remote app on iPod & iPhone is not being recognized.
iTunes runs fine for other purposes, but it never sees these devices' remote app
and it's not been possible to connect.
itunes has its library fully shared in preferences.
bonjour is running (apparently) on the VM.
What is needed to get the remote app devices visible to
iTunes? Is it not compatible with this kind of VM networking?
iPhone 5, iOS 6.1.4, also ipod touch ios 6.1.3