I I do not have software update on my iPad how do i get to update?

Update it from iTunes on a computer as described at the bottom of this article; devices running an iOS version prior to 5.0 can't be updated straight from the device. It will be updated to the latest compatible version.

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WHITI wrote:

How do update to ios6 as I do not have software update on my iPad?

That is only a feature of iOS 5 or later...

If you have iOS 4... See Here...

http://support.apple.com/kb/HT4972

OR...

Connect to iTunes on the computer you usually Sync with and “ Check for Updates “...

If an Update Appears Install it...

See the Using iTunes Section Here...

How to update your iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch