you didn't fall prey, the latest version of CampTune and NTFS from Paragon work.
You have to use Paragon NTFS for startup. And guess what, sometimes Windows on its own drive just does not show up. Even w/o Paragon or 3rd party. But it does show up in Windows if you installed Boot Camp - I prefer not to though and is not needed plus why tehre is no custom install to install what YOU need rather than all the drivers many of which you do not. Not on Mac Pro. Still need to install 3rd party drivers too.
Yes. Option is just a way to invoke EFI startup manager.
Use to be some used rEFIt may not work now.
You posted in a workstation/tower Mac Pro forum, not Boot CAmp, not MacBook Pro, forums.
Mac 101: Using Windows on your Mac via Boot Camp
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Direct you to the proper forum for MacBook :