I held off responding as you seemed to have chosen a path and I didn't want to distract from that. Hope you have everything working now.
Royal Cascadian wrote:
But the fact that my browers are supposed to automatically update flash, yet tell me to update the flash player exernally with the one on my computer, which I didn't install, would seem likely that it is malware.
The automatic update capability of System Preferences->Flash Player->Advanced tab has never worked. I gave up and set mine to Notify. Chrome is the only one of my browsers that automatically updates.
Just because you personally haven't run into this, doesn't mean it's impossible, just unlikely, yet.
Have you never heard of a malware program automatically downloading more files? What do you think flashback was? And do you not think there are already newer versions of that? This is just the beginning for Macs.
At least three of us folks who have tried to help you here have an ulterior motive for being here and that is in case you are right about new malware. We spend a good portion of our days scanning the Internet and reading the security blogs for any sign of a new mac threat. It would not be the first time that we have stumbled across a zero-day infection that none of the A-V labs, etc. have run across yet. That's why we keep insisting on details and answers to detailed questions. I realize that your first priority must be getting your computer back on track, but hopefully you appreciate that in doing so you can help the community out before things get out of control as they did about a year ago.
Of course we know about Trojan downloaders. That's the way almost all drive-by infections occur. Neither I nor any of the other contributors said that wasn't a possibility, just that we are currently unaware. I believe the Flashback developers retreated from the OS X market because it wasn't cost effective for them, even after collecting advertising fees for ~600,000 users for a short time. Are they working on the next version? Certainly possible, and some of us want to be on top of it should they choose to open that market up again.