Definitly add ethernet if you have the opportunity. And run more lines than you think you might use. Ever been in an old house that never had its electric service updated? Extension cords everywhere, power strips hanging on the floor not enough (or poorly spaced) outlets. In many ways this is how too many people approach ethernet ports -- "I want use my computer here" -- without giving themselves growth room.
I'd recommend ethernet at
- every television -- mulitple drops actually so that you can connect TV, Apple TV, blu ray player, video game consoles, etc
- Each thermostat
- Utility room -- one for lawn sprinkler system if you have/might want one. One for each furnace (someday these will be network ready, primarily for diagnostics I suspect, run the wires while you can)
- Kitchen -- people often have a desk space for a computer there, plus multiple drops at the kitchen table (my kids always hang out there with there computers). Someday kitchen appliances may be network ready (primarily for diagnostics I suspect) -- give them a drop of their own.
- Home Office area -- drops for a couple of computers (below the work surface for desktop machines plus another above for laptop), couple of printers
- Every bedroom -- at least one, preferably two in different parts of the room
- Every seating area
- Family room is a must
- Every stereo so you can add an airport express (think about whole house audio as well)
- A drop in the center of the house where you can add a wifi repeater or airport express to give better wifi coverage
You will end up with more ports than you will ever use at once, but that's true for the electric outlets in your house as well. Run Cat6 back to a gigabit switch for most drops. You can run cheaper Cat5e for home automation (thermostats, etc) back to a fast ethernet switch. Bring all the cables back to a common point. Use patch panels rather than trying to add plugs to bare cables. Wire is cheap if you can run it while the walls are open.
You will end up actually using a combination of wifi and ethernet, but its good to have options
Better to have and not need than need and not have. I have a large house and ran 50+ ports to the areas that where accessible during a mid-size renovation. Monoprice.com is a good source for the actual ports, patch cables, patch panels, etc. I bought all my switches off ebay.
You referenced "telephone socket" Are you on DSL? Plan for high speed internet which may enter the house at the common service point where electric and phone lines come in. I'd run all the cables back to this point and do all the switching there. You can run an extra cat6 to connect this installation back to the "telephone socket" until such time as you have high speed internet. But I'd keep all the switches, etc in a utility space, they can get noisy.
Carlos