i dont have a library folder.

On what Mac running what version of OS X?

Which library folder there are more than one?

Mac os automatically recreates your library folder,

~/Library

Robert

Hi Emily, Aple hid it in 10.7 & up...

http://osxdaily.com/2011/07/22/access-user-library-folder-in-os-x-lion/

You refer to Lion. The OP has posted in the Tiger forum but has so far refused to tell us what Mac she has or confirmed that she, as indicated, is running Tiger.