The following article details the process of troubleshooting the sync process for Contacts and Calendars.
Thank you. Now have different problem:
Went through the process above. When I first hooked phone up via USB, an event from the Desktop transfered to the phone. Good.
Then I added an event to the phone's calendar. Will not appear on Desktop calendar.
Now, event added to Desktop calendar does not appear on phone.
These steps were all via iTunes.
Tried to force syncing through iSync. iSync does not detect the phone, even though iTunes does and About This Mac/More Info/Hardware sees the phone as connected.
I am really confused.
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