Well... well... well...
I PROBABLY found the final solution... part by chance, part by carefully looking at some of the messages from the console.
I received today my MBA 13 inches, 8GB RAM, 256GB SSD (but it shouldn't make any difference...).
Just to give you a hint of environmental conditions, I've restored my MBA from a TM backup I had from my previous MBA C2D, mid-2010, without even starting up the new machine... I used the option of migrating from a previous system at first boot.
I've experienced Wifi disconnections (one every 20-30 seconds) since first minute of usage!!!
After tinkering with my new system and carefully analysing console messages I've decided to do some "weird" stuff:
I've REMOVED the wifi device from the list of services in the network pane of System Preferences!
Then I reenabled wifi from the menubar (system-wide menubar, close to audio, battery, spotlight icons "on the desktop", if you like;
Then in System Preferences, network pane, my wifi device reappeared and connected to the wifi;
Clicked "Apply" on the same pane.
NO DISCONNECTIONS SINCE THEN!
My guess is that something is broken in the plists managing wifi on our MBA's "from factory". Removing the service and letting OSX refresh its files by reenabling the service "cleans" the situation and makes everything working again.
I'll let you know if the fix "sticks" or not... but try this for yourselves... it MAY WELL solve your problems, without fiddling with potentially out of control parameters like beacon intervals, QoS, wifi channels and whatnot!